what to do when your friend ditches you for his girlfriend

Earlier he got with this girl he was ALWAYS texting/ringing/making an effort to spend time with me (in a friendly way; we've never fancied each other, we're merely actually skillful friends of the opposite sex) and nosotros were actually close; he would ***** about other girls to me and we would discuss pretty much everything including sexual practice, drugs, gossip etc.

But sometimes he "starts seeing" a daughter and they never last for also long, it is but on the ground of sexual activity and lasts about 2/3 weeks so when he got with his current gf a couple of months ago, I was similar "Hmm ok, after a couple of weeks he'll come running dorsum" but he's still with her and I haven't seen him for ages. The other 24-hour interval at higher I said "you lot still with what's-her-proper name?" and he went "All the same WITH HER? You're so mean " blahh, but yeah, he's nonetheless with her and the relationship seems to have lasted longer than I expected it to

I've been texting him throughout the last 2 weeks and he hasn't texted back That ***** has taken him away from me and I really really want to spend fourth dimension with him cos I miss my friend he's never on msn or annihilation either!

Am I being hateful? Or is information technology his error for being similar this?! I personally think it'southward his fault because he always says how he's never looking for a human relationship; just a girl who is practiced in bed just he'south however with his electric current girlfriend later then long? Could it mean that he's fallen for her and/or she's really good in bed? I've seen pictures of her on his facebook and she's really non pretty at all I don't know what he sees in her (apart from the sex, evidently) just I but miss him and want him to ring me and so we can conduct on with bithching virtually people and discussing how ____'due south got an STI lol.

Help delight!

Oooh

Bros before hoes man. Y'all want to tell him that.

Near of my mates are guys, and they're all the same. I think in a way you are correct to feel aroused, only in a way you lot might exist incorrect. Clearly it is out of gild to but ditch your mates for your partner, and he should exist making more than of an effort to speak to you etc. Only mayhap he has just actually found a nice daughter who he clicks with. It shouldn't matter how pretty she is, or if he has said he doesn't want a human relationship because these things change. The fact that he has a girlfriend seems like it won't change, so rather than caring about that, you lot should try to work out why he doesn't speak to y'all any more. It might get ameliorate soon, but if not, just inquire him why he isn't making the attempt. When I've pointed out to my mates how much they ditch me, they seem to make a bit more effort. Hope he stops being a fool and starts spending more time with you once more =)

You sounds massively jealous. You certain you dont like him? The *****y annotate well-nigh the other girl makes information technology sounds similar you do

Its a busy fourth dimension right at present, exams+a girlfriend is probably taking a massive amount of time. Though its not an excuse to cut off all contact.

this e'er happens. their all like broes before hoes so when they run across a *****-***** it all changes.

sounds like you've turned into a greenish eyed monster

(Original post past Bearding)
I'm a girl?

um ....then bessie'south before jessie's?

(Original post by Subcutaneous)
sounds like yous've turned into a green eyed monster

This.

You certain you don't have feelings for him?

Massively jealous; don't do anything y'all'll regret.

You split them up and he'll hate you for life.

What's a green eyed monster?

And no, I don't fancy him, lol. Can a daughter and guy non exist friends or something? :s

Right...

You're calling this daughter an unattractive ***** mainly because he's stolen away your man.
You lot don't know what he sees in her (maybe he's only less shallow than you lot are?)

Are you sure you lot don't fancy him? Of course, guys and girls can exist only friends (if this wasn't true my life would just be one giant orgy!), but your protectiveness suggests that you might actually have feeling for him.

Anyway, just tell him that he's been neglecting yous and that yous feel bad nigh it instead of conveying on as normal. Unless he knows that in that location's a problem, nothing'll be done well-nigh it.

(Original post by Anonymous)
Before he got with this girl he was ALWAYS texting/ringing/making an effort to spend fourth dimension with me (in a friendly manner; we've never fancied each other, we're merely really skillful friends of the opposite sexual activity) and we were actually shut; he would ***** about other girls to me and nosotros would hash out pretty much everything including sex, drugs, gossip etc.

But sometimes he "starts seeing" a girl and they never last for too long, it is merely on the ground of sexual practice and lasts nearly ii/3 weeks so when he got with his current gf a couple of months ago, I was similar "Hmm ok, after a couple of weeks he'll come running back" simply he's still with her and I haven't seen him for ages. The other day at college I said "you lot even so with what's-her-name?" and he went "All the same WITH HER? You lot're so mean " blahh, but yeah, he's still with her and the relationship seems to take lasted longer than I expected it to

I've been texting him throughout the last 2 weeks and he hasn't texted back That ***** has taken him away from me and I actually actually want to spend time with him cos I miss my friend he'south never on msn or anything either!

Am I beingness hateful? Or is it his mistake for being like this?! I personally recollect it's his error because he always says how he's never looking for a human relationship; only a girl who is good in bed simply he's still with his current girlfriend after so long? Could it mean that he's fallen for her and/or she'southward actually skilful in bed? I've seen pictures of her on his facebook and she's actually not pretty at all I don't know what he sees in her (apart from the sex activity, obviously) merely I just miss him and desire him to band me and so nosotros can carry on with bithching nigh people and discussing how ____'south got an STI lol.

Help please!

I recall you're being mad at the incorrect person, you can't arraign the girl he'southward with, HE'Due south the one who's choosing to ditch y'all. I recollect you take iii options: a) come to have that he won't be as friendly when he's in relationships so you tin can control your neediness (yes, information technology is neediness, if not the worst case of it), b) explain everything here to him and see if he changes, if not, forget almost him because he's not worth the sadness or c) just end trying, and when he comes back explain why (then run across if either of you want things to change).

Is there whatever way that y'all could arrange to meet upwards with him in the sort of enviroment where you could talk and tell him how much you lot miss him? Is that at all possible? To exist honest if he'due south not texting you dorsum that's his decision and he's probably only not being a practiced friend, I wouldn't make the mistake of blaming his girlfriend considering that volition actually put you in his bad books. Is he existence like this but with you lot or exercise you take any mutual friends he'southward also ignoring? It could be the normal fallen-in-dearest-and-ditched-friends problemo.

i.give him space..he's patently found something special with this daughter
2.why dnt you go yourself a boyfriend?
3.make friends with this daughter, invite her and your mate to the cinema or something...

(Original post past Cj-Tj)
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Bros earlier hoes human. You want to tell him that.

Genius!

Mates earlier dates..
[that should cover both sexes]

Ah just talk to him and enquire him without putting a bad image on his girlfriend or else he'll call up yous're only being *****y about her and that'll give him reason not to talk to you lot

dark-green eyed monster means youre jelous stupid. you been living in a cave or something?

I accept 2 friends who have been in the exact same position, and information technology turned out that the girl had feelings for the guy so...

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